My girlfriend desperately wants to have sex with me. we already had a oral sex? My girlfriend desperately wants to have sex with me. we already had a oral sex because we heard
it's safer because she can't get pregnant,
but this time she want to loose her virginity
How do I get her to wait?
She's very beautiful and I find it hard enough without having to deal with her constant moaning and demands for sex.
The other day she got completely naked and tried to forcefully undress me. She want me to break her hymen but . I am afraid because this is my first hardcore sex and it might be not good for her. I am confuse what to do?? |
Minimum age should be 18. That's when a person is legally responsible for the consequences of their actions. Prior to that, your folks are primary responsible...and they shouldn't have to pay one cent toward medical bills for pregnancy or STD treatment for their guy.
If a person wants to have sex, they need to be able to handle ANYthing that might occur...physically, financially, and emotionally.
If ya can't pay, don't play. Otherwise, it's just irresponsible and should be illegal.
Sex not occur before:
1. You are ready to deal with a pregnancy, should it occur
2. You are ready to deal with an STD, should it occur
3. When you know how a woman can become pregnant (all the ways it can occur)
4. When you know what the various STDs are and how they are transmitted and how to help protect against them
5. When you are ready to insist your partner wear a condom (female) or insist that you wear one (male)
6. When you are on a reliable form of birth control and using it properly (female) or ensure that she is (male)
7. When you are ready to deal with any emotional issues that may come from being intimate with another person
Until you've got those things covered, you should not have sex. |
I had sex with my mother in-law? I ended up having hardcore oral sex with my mother's in law we got drunk and someway or another i woke up naked next to her (she in her mid 70s) .. What should i do tell my wife???? |
| that you need something hot to jab your eyes out with. |
Why doesn't malayalee couples have sex for pleasure? please answer? do malayalee husbands and wives (from kerala) have sex for pleasure or is it just for making babies? do they do hardcore stuff like oral sex. please answer. i am intrigued by malayalee people. |
| It is a surprise that u r asking about particular state people.People frm south india r quite active in sexual activities.they do hardcore and all sorts of stuff for pleasure.But people frm kerala being most literate in India and spread-ed thru out the world for jobs and comes back home once in a year/in two year may hv sex for the reason of making babies. |
A question about God and really kinky sex. We're talking hardcore stuff...? Is really kinky sex ok in the eyes of God? I mean, really kinky hardcore stuff. You know. 12 inch toys and stuff like that, sadomasochism etc.
I mean, can you get down and dirty and do the bold thing in whichever dirty way imaginable whenever, or is God only cool with it when you're married?
Also, you know the way God is against sodomoy with men, is he down with that when it's between a husband and wife?
How would God view role playing within a married environment?
Someone once told me in this section that GOd is against putting the Penis anywhere else other than the vagina. Does that rule out oral sex? Even if you were married? |
| Hmmm. You know what bothers me? You capitalized penis. |
Never have sex anymore:(? For the past two months or so, it seems as if my husband don't have time for sex. We have one 13 year old son and a hyper-active 14 month year old daughter. He works 8 hours a day and by the time he gets home he is so exhausted and never really has the energy for sex. I really have a high sex drive and it is either really really hardcore sex or really good oral sex. And recently my husband hasn't been doing any of that for me. Is it because he is tired all the time or just not in the mood? What can I do to get him back into sex.
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You did not mention how were your sex life before. Was is once a week, once a month, twice a week ....this is relevant to know..Sex is a very important issue between couple and reflects the inside of a relationship. When there are sex problems, there are other problems as well. It needs to be address ASAP. Take the action and find out!
It is for your own good, for your guys' good and your relationship as well!
You won't last for ever with no sex, eventually you will start looking outside for this and it will only bring problems to your relationship. Relationship with no sex might not survive for long...
There are some reasons for males not to wanting sex (although it sounds weird...).
1. age(but it looks like you are both in your 30's so I am not sure that age is the reason).
2. health problem- sometimes there is a decrease in some hormones level and it affect the sex desire.
3. Maybe he is very tired from work and the day to day demands, that by the time he gets to bed, all he wants is to sleep.
4. Maybe he is angry at you and it makes him act this way. Maybe it is something you are not aware to.
5. Maybe he feels that you are so devoted to the guys and he feels neglected (it happens to some of the husbands ,especially when there is a new baby around).
6. Maybe he does not enjoy the sex as much as you, from some reason, and this needs to be addressed.
7. last one which I hate to think about is maybe, just maybe , there is a new girl in the picture which fill your place in this issue...but this is the last thing you should think about,just to keep in mind.
Well, I would go to him, find a time/place which both of you are not stressed,or tired or angry or busy,and speak to him and share your thoughts and feelings with him, ,just like you did with us today. Tell him what you feel, what it causes you and how you would like to change it. Share it with him and ask for his thoughts and feelings , maybe he would tell you some things you did not have a clue about them. If speaking is hard for you, you might want to write him a letter ,just like you speak to him , and ask him to write you back his thoughts ,or to speak to you. Start with "I love you and I care about us, I want to improve and change things between us so we would be happier, I want you to know my feelings and share it with you..." and so on. DO NOT attack him for not having sex with you! That might worsen the problem. I wish only happiness for both of you and I am sure that soon things will get better! Good luck!
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How do women learn what oral sex is - both giving and receiving? I'm curious to know. At quite at young age I heard about c___sucking at school but did not know EXACTLY what it was. I think I thought it was just like sucking on something.
It was not until I was 17 years old and my father borrowed an X rated video (the internet hadn't been invented back then and X rated videos had just become available because of video recorders and the Australian government had not legislated against that form of pornography yet) and when my parents were asleep I crept upstairs and watched it (with no sound of course). This is how I learnt what oral sex actually entailed.
But before the days of the internet and hardcore pornography (I guess prior to mid 1980s in Australia) how did women know what it was. I'm really curious to know.
Did their boyfriend teach you. In which case how did he know.
Did you just work it out for yourself? |
| I am not sure how I found out about it... must have been along time ago! No one taught me I read cosmo lol maybe thats why. I remember people talking bout that stuff at school as well. |
Begin paid to have sex is illegal, though being paid to have sex in front of camera is legal what do you think Beging paid to perform sex acts (prostitution) is illegal. Though hardcore porn which is just sex is legal i dont understand either both should be legal or both should be illegal. You must be atleast 18 years old to watch porn but more than 42 percent of guys and 33% of girls ages 15-17 have had intercourse
(Let's Talk About Sex, Melissa Daly. Seventeen Magazine, July 2003.) and More than half of teens ages 15-19 say they’ve had oral sex. (USA Today 9 September 2005. ) So its ok for a 15 year-old to have sex but he has to wait 3 more years to watch it ? Thier is something really messed up with our goverment what is your view on this ? What do you think about all this i put the address of this website at the source spot
Joey, US |
| prostitution is not illegal every where, in some county's in Nevada it is legal as long as it is confined to a liscened house. i think that there is nothing wrong with this and as for the movies i believe it is illegal for those under the age of 18 to participate in porn movies and i think that that's a good thing. our government is basing its laws on the moral majority's opinion as they have the loudest voice, although it was glamorized, the movie about Larry flint does a lot to explane the problems we have with freedom of expression in this country. |
Is it possible to get someone pregnant from precum? I had sex with this my girlfriend on may 27 but before we had sex, she gave me oral sex and i was empty after that. Maybe 15 minutes later, we started to have sex (not hardcore sex) but then i decided to stop cuz i didnt feel as though it was time. I didnt have an orgasm and i dont remember feeling there being a presence of precum. Is it possible that i got her pregnant? Becuase it wasnt in all the way. |
| Yes, she can fall pregnant. |
I’ am 24 and haven’t had sex over a year ago but on? I’ am 24 and haven’t had sex over a year ago but on last Friday I had sex with this chick that I been talking to. I used protection for the actually sex it lasted for like 2 hours and it never take of. But she performed oral sex on me without the jimmy twice. So the following days after that I was pretty sore due to the fact that it was hardcore sex, anyhow on Monday my penis was real tender and I figure it was due to the hardcore sex. But then it started to burn On Tuesday, there’s no bumps and there’s nothing out the normal on my penis or head. It burns while I m just sitting here type this and at times when I pee. I made a doctor appt on Tuesday but I was just wondering how serious this sounds to some of yall? |
| wow,well first of all stay away from that girl.Second of all anything burning or hurting is not normal. And anything not normal means theres something wrong.There are free std clinics you can go to and get the results in a hour.Google it.Department of health. My friend caught gonerrea from recieving oral in the club.So yes you can catch it from oral. |