Humiliating Spankings? Have you ever been humiliated by receiving a spanking? Such as receiving a good *** beating in public? This could be as a guy or as an adult ;)............. |
| When I was like 7 my best friend and I thought that it would be a good idea to moon the cute neighbor boy across the street. We stood up on the bumper of her parents van so our moms couldn't see us from inside. We both pulled down our pants and laughed hysterically. The boys mom called my friends mom and man were they pissed. Both of our mothers came out of the house and caught us with our pants down. They both pulled us to the front porch with our pants down and they continued to beat our butts. Ill never forget my mother saying, "You want to show off your butt to the whole neighborhood!! Well here you go! I hope your getting the show that you wanted!!" It was pretty humiliating and I couldn't sit down for a couple of hours. That was about 13 years ago and my friend and I still laugh about it |
How old is too old for spankings from parents? I am 15..very close to 16 and I still get spankings. I mean like real spankings with a belt or sometimes even a switch. I hate it. Its embarassing and humiliating. I try to obey all the rules but I can get a spanking if I say something the wrong way or if I "look sassy" at my parents. I want to talk to my parents but I am too afraid. How old is too old for spankings? |
| Honey, you are too old for spankings! Are they with-holding food as well? Medical treatment? |
I think they should bring back school spankings, what do you think spanking was allowed all the way through my high school years, which even i got 10 swats with the paddle in high school by the vice principal in the hall between classes for all to see, but i never felt denigrated or humiliated, i think guys have become worse since they stopped, |
| ABSOLUTELY!! I think on the first day of school parents should sign a consent form saying whether they allow their guys to be paddled or not...that way the ones against it don't have to be part of it (though their guys are the ones that need it!). |
How can i stop my mother humiliating my brother? hi im a 19 year old woman who lives at home with my mother and twin sisters of 14 and my brother of 12 . well she really does pick on him big time he gets lots of spankings in front of us or family members but last week for me was the final straw,i was watching tv and my brother had been off schoool , well 3.30 came and mum said right spank time for u young man and my sisters came in and mum said everything set they said yes didnt know what was going on and as mum took his trousers and pants down, she said ok girls with that my sisters drew back the curtains and she had taken the nets down and a group of schoolgirls had gathered to wacth my brothers humiliation, he was mortified as she put him over her knee for all to see and hear as the windows were open and you could hear the girls laughing i really think i should tell someone dont u this is not right |
| Wtf! And you are 19...omg...I'm sooooooooooooooo pist! Do something, I mean my daughter is 15 and her brother is 7 and trust me he does things that are not acceptable and does receive a spanking but there has not been ONE time that my daughter has not questioned as to why he is receiving a punishment and if she disagrees she comments. It annoys me, but you know what I know that if my daughter can stand up to me to take care of her baby brother...when the time comes, all my guys will be alright. I have always taught my guys to defend their brothers and sisters even if I am the one they have to defend them against. Sometimes, I get ganged up on and it hurts me because I am right but hey after I get over it, I know that there is a bond between them that I helped built. |
Humilitating Spankings?...? Have you ever been humiliated by receiving a spanking? Such as receiving a good *** beating in public? This could be as a guy or as an adult ;)............. |
Yes. I grew up in a houshold where it was very common for my sister and I to be spanked on a regular basis, and it was always humiliating to some degree. However, one time when I was 12 my cousin was staying over at our house for the weekend when I got spanked by my mother. I had taken some money from my sister without asking, and when my mom found out she calmly took me to the nearest chair in the kitchen, yanked down my pants, put me over her knee and spanked me for a good two minutes as my shocked cousin looked on.
The only thing that eased my humiliation later was when my cousin, who was a year older then me, told me she got spanked the same way by her parents too. |
Why Am I so Fixated On Certain Guyhood Memories? When I was a guy I was NOT forced, but coerced by my brother to do oral on him.
He was 13 and curious I guess. I was 8 and naive.
Now as an adult, every once in awhile I get to where I'm really wanting to do oral on a guy.
I guess the reason is I want to feel dirty and slutty.
I thought maybe it was my way of taking full control of what my "inner guy" wasn't. or is that all "phycobabble"?
Because as an adult, if I don't want to do it, I have no trouble saying no.
I also like getting humiliated and punished.
One thing I fantasize about is bare bottom spankings.
Also I like my girlfriend to take all my money and give me just enough to get by.
I told her to spend it frivolously, but I can't really get her to do it because she says she would really feel too guilty.
Sometimes, I feel so abnormal and depressed about things. |
| Bad things are traumatic. Trauma sucks. If good things were traumatic (in a positive way), we wouldn't remember the bad things. |
Changes in Discipline of Teenager Better? I posed a question here regarding the discipline of my 16 year old son. I am a firm believer in spanking but a lot of you seemed to think it is inappropriate to spank bare bottom at his age. It got me thinking if I might be harming him psychologically. I approached him about it. He said he agreed he probably deserved to be spanked on occasion but was very embarrassed for me to see him naked. The last thing I want to do is humiliate my son so I've permitted him to wear briefs for future spankings. I can still monitor the redness so I know I don't overdo it by pulling the briefs up in back before the spanking. Kind of a thong effect. He gets to protect his modesty in front and I can still get to the bottom of his misbehavior. Seems to me like a reasonable compromise. Thoughts? |
| Sorry, you have problems , just look for professional help. Anuway, I'm completely against spanking |
Do you think it's fair for a guy to be spanked in front of the family? Someone told me that when her and her husband spank their guyren, they bring in all the other guyren that are home into the family room to tell them what the guy did and let them see the spanking to make the guy the example and to make the punishment more unpleasant.
I really don't even know whether to agree or disagree with this. On one hand it is more fair if it is private, but on the other hand if the guy gets used to spankings it may be a bit more humiliating if they have to get it when other people are watching and make them not want to repeat the bad behavior.
Have you ever done this before? |
Spankings aren't suppose to be fun.
It's suppose to teach them not to repeat their bad actions. If that means embarrassment, so be it. The fact is, learn to behave, and all will be well.
Parents who are easy on guys, have guys who are hard on parents. |
How do I ask a girl out who has a father resistant to her seeing boys.? Last week we shifted to a new country town because of my fathers work and as he does not start work for another three days my parents collected me from colledge this afternoon. On the way home my mother made us stop at a very old run down barbershop she had seen in her travels yesterday, because she demanded my father and myself were well overdue for a haircut.
When sitting waiting to be called to the Barbers chair while other men before us were sheared shaved etc my mother pointed out a young girl to me who was cleaning up after the barber, but was also very shy and to scared to look at anybody in the shop.
Eventually after my Father had been done I was then summoned to the chair in quite a stern voice by a very serious faced Barber, who I am sure was stern and strict with me to make me so scared of him that I would not look at the young girl ( and I must say it worked ). After my mother told the Barber she wanted my haircut a very short back and sides the same as my father she sat back in the waiting chairs but continued a long conversation with the Barber.
It came out in the conversation between my Mother and the Barber that the pretty looking girl my age doing cleaning duties was the Barbers youngest 16 year old daughter. Because she had two friends over while babysitting her nephew and neice the other night when she was told it was not allowed, she had been punished with a spanking by her father over his knee with a razor strap and to finish the punishment off had to work after school each night this week cleaning shears, razors shaving brushes etc and sweeping up the hair around the chair.
The few times I was abe to look up in between having my head pushed forcefully forward and sideways by the barber ( which I am sure was meant to stop his daugher and my eyes meeting ) but also so he could scare me into submission by shearing me as high as possible above my ears and up the back of my neck, I noticed her quickly look up and glance at me before looking down again before her father noticed.
When my haircut was over the young girl was sternly told by her father to clean up the instruments he had used on me, but as I was escorted out of the Barbershop by my parents she looked up at me and gave me a very shy smile and I returned a very keen smile to her.
I don't want her to be subject to anymore spankings as I know from experience how painfull and humiliating they are from being over my fathers knee when I have misbehaved, but I really have fallen in love with this pretty girl at our first sight and anxiously want to see her again.
Unfortunately the afternoon my father and I had our haircut was the last afternoon she was being made to work there, so it has become a difficult thing to do.
Has any one got any suggestions on how I could get to see her again without getting her in trouble from her strict father ? |
| If you are in college and she is 16, I think maybe you need to be over your father's knee again for even thinking about trying to see her. |
I am 16 and still get spanked. its embarassing!!? i still get bare bottom spankings and im a 16 year old guy, its never anything like extreme beating or sexual at all, its just embarassing... i even got a bare bottom (no pants or underpants at all) one this past weekend in front of one of my friends..he saw everything.. he was very cool about it.. but it was humiliating. doea anyone else get it like me? cuz i asked him and he said no and it seems like i am the only one. |
| Quit whining and take your punishment. Maybe you will grow up to be a decent adult if you learn your lessons now. |