When im having sex with my boyfriend I have to use a vibrator to orgasm? BUT, when I use the vibrator on the top part of myself, when we are having sex it makes his penis numb so HE cant orgasm, so its either I have an orgasm or he does. Any suggestions as to what else i can do so we can both enjoy sex fully? |
What type of vibrator are you using? Maybe it is either too big or too powerful try getting something small like a mini mite or bullet. This might counter his penis getting numb.
You can also look at getting the WE-Vibe Couples vibrator. I think it would definitely allow both of you to orgasm.
We Vibe 2 - The Couples Vibrator
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The We Vibe 2 - The Couple Vibrator is small enough to be worn while making love and it is the only hands free clitoral vibe with no straps, panties, wires or rings to get in the way. This form fitting and comfortable vibe is made from medical grade silicone and is rechargeable and completely waterproof. This massager is about 10 times more powerful than a typical bullet and it has no batteries to fuss with. It has 2 speeds to satisfy - low speed offers throbbing that gives you the rumble of a large toy and high speed is the ideal climactic stimulation. Just a single charge will give you two hours of fun. The We-Vibe weighs about 2 ounces and has a usable length of 3.25 inches.
Good Luck!! |
Is a vibrator orgasm better than with fingers? I don't have access to a vibrator, but I can't imagine anything feeling better than what my fingers can do.
I have heard that some girls like a vibe best. Any personal experienced opinion would be appreciated. |
| Yeah because the stimulation is more direct and intense. |
What setting is best when using a vibrator to reach orgasm? on it there is a ROTATION setting and a VIBRATION setting. i want to know the b est setting to put each of these on to reach a full orgasmic climax. and also, whats the best way to get an orgasm from a vibraotr. usually at the start of an orgasm i move the vibrator away from my vagina as that is what my body feels i should do. How i can withstand it and get a full orgasm. Thanks |
| experiment ---- we cant tell you what to do ---- everyone is different do what feels good and try something different now and then and see what happens ---- have fun |
How do I learn to orgasm without a vibrator? I actually didn't know I could orgasm until recently. I had taken medication for years as a teenager which has a reputation of shutting you down, and I thought I was broken. Thankfully, I'm not! But I would really like my boyfriend to be able to give me an orgasm without a vibrator. He's very good in bed, and gets me about 90% there, but that's it. What's a good way to go about this? I'm sure other girls who've had this problem can offer advice! |
| First learn to orgasm with your finger(s) when you're alone then with your boyfriend. Only about half of all women orgasm from intercourse alone. Just add your fingers to what your boyfriend is doing. Don't let it bother you, like I said, it's a 50-50 chance. A good boyfriend shouldn't mind doing a little extra to get you there ! |
How to achieve orgasm with a vibrator? I know that girls can have orgasms by masturbating with a vibrator. I have also heard that guys can too. I tried a few times, but I don’t feel anything special. I put the vibrator on my scrotum—so it was on my testicles.
Is it supposed to be on my penis? Am I supposed to move it? What do I have to do with the vibrator to achieve an orgasm by itself, it possible?
Thanks in advance! |
| Put the vibrator on the head of your penis. Then turn it on and turn it up every once in a while. Make sure you put it directly ont he slit of your penis and make sure its nice and erect. |
Why cant i have an orgasm without a vibrator? I got my first vibrator when I was 13, before that, I masturbated by rubbing myself on counters and such. I have had sex with my boyfriend many times, and he is really good! He can last for hours! But for some reason I just cant orgasm, even if he's fingering me, or going down on me. Is there any way to fix this? |
Most men are not aware that they need to stimulate clit very briskly for their female partner to get orgasm. This happens while using a vibrator.
The best way for your bf to give you orgasm is that you ask him to lie on his back and you ensure that you are on top of him and adjust your position in such a way that there is brisk friction of his penis with your clit. This is bound to lead you to orgasm.
Edit - In my clinical practice, I advice women to "Show" to guys how using vibrator they achieve orgasm so that they "learn" the technique.
Let me know if this works for you. |
Why cant i orgasm with my vibrator? I'm 16 and i have a vibrator (if ur just going to tell me im to young to have a vibrator then dont waste my time with a comment thats ur morals not mine) i cant orgasm. I have a bullet for my clit and a dildo vib and neither give me an orgasm. What am i doing wrong. And how long should it take. I want my first orgasm. |
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How can I have an orgasm without a vibrator? I stared having sex when I was 14 years old and I was never able to have an orgasm unti my parner gave my a vibrator to use with him while we had sex. Well I'm 19 now an I have a new partner, we been together for two years and we have tried everything to make me have an orgasm without the vi but at the end I have to use it. If anyone has an idea please help this is killing my relationship |
Many women really have an easier time having an orgasm with a vibrator - so first know that what you're experiencing is completely normal. In fact, the majority of women can not have an orgasm without clitoral stimulation!
I'd really recommend trying an arousal gel like Pure Satisfaction from Passion Parties that brings the blood to the area, creating fast arousal and an easier orgasm. Best of luck! |
Will using a Vibrator give me a Vaginal Orgasm? I've heard there's a difference between clitoral orgasm and vaginal orgasm. So far I've only been able to have clitoral orgasms in my lifetime. I've had sex enough times and my vaginal orgasm has never come. If i buy vibrator and use it, will I almost definitely have a vaginal orgasm for the first time? |
Very few women can have vaginal orgasm and it is not easy to achieve. Vagina is very poor in nerve endings as compared to Clitoris, hence even with brisk stimulation less likely that it would take you to orgasm.
Next best option for getting orgasm is by g - spot stimulation , which can be easily achieved in a doggy style position during sex. |
What's a good way to masturbate and acheive orgasm without a vibrator? I've acheived orgasm before with just rubbing the clitoris with my fingers. |
| hump something like a pillow or armchair |