Kids to young for sex? Intro:
I just answered a question about a 10th grader who wants to have sex with this girl. He claims that is "right" and he wants to "bone her" and when college comes its "hardcore f******"
guys are influenced by the mass media that its okay to have pre-martial sex. Movies and TV teaches teens to pursue happyiness - bangin b*tches. Magazines teaching girls "how to please ur man" Talk about being blind about the dealing with the consequences that can happen and how happiness is evily twisted with sex. Not having sex until your 18 will put less stress to those families that have encounter problems. Once your 18, your on ur own
Question:
Do you agree/disagree that guys are to young for sex?
Do you think by mean of sex people will find happyness?
What do you think is a suitable age (besides 18) for people to have sex?
My teacher once told me: "If its illegal to watch guys under 18 having sex; then you guys under 18 shouldn't have sex"
shocking, but kind of profound insight |
| I'm a traditionalist kinda gal and I think it's right to wait. It makes it more worth it and exciting. You don't need to rush. there are more important things you can be doing at your age. |
For young, hardcore lifelong Christians.? Do you feel like your missing out on experiencing things that non religious people seem to find so appealing - like smoking, drinking, gambling and casual sex with other people wives?
Do you ever wonder what freedom from your beliefs would be like?
Discuss.
(Personally I've wondered what it would be like to have such a strong faith in God - but I'm simply not wired to understand it!) |
I will answer on behalf of my two teenage guyren - A BIG, RESOUNDING, NO! Parents who raise their guyren on a steady diet of "fornication is OK as long as you protect yourselves," "homosexuality is an innocent, alternate lifestyle," "drink but don't get drunk," etc, don't know what's best for their guyren, and they're taking them to hell. SHAME on them! Both my guyren live VERY simple lives, and I'm GLAD that we won't have the TRAUMA of STDs, UNWANTED PREGNANCIES, DEAD BRAIN CELLS, LUNG CANCER, ETC, ANYTIME SOON.
EDIT: If the inhabitants defile a land with THEIR FILTHY DEEDS, THE LAND WILL VOMIT THEM OUT. Leviticus 18:25: "And the land is defiled: therefore I do visit the iniquity thereof upon it, and the land itself vomiteth out her inhabitants." |
Young people over 18 - Has having porn so easily obtainable had an influence on how you view sex? When I was young you had to look at a sears catalog just to see women in the undies. Hardcore porn was not really accessible. |
| yes it has actually |
Is 17 and 1/2 too young to have sex? Ok sooo, I have met THE LOVE OF MY LIFE >_< LOL! :P.....I am 16 turning 17 in almost 2 months yay!! :) soo tech im 17 :D, and I am dating a guy that is 19 , and we love eachother very much. we have been together for almost five months now, and yeah it doesnt seem like that long,,,, but we are past the dating thing, we are like hardcore into eachother, I have NEVER been with a guy that I was so happy and comfortable around, I would trust him with my life! He told me that he loves me, and he will wait for as long as I want to have sex, because I am a virgin, He has had sex before OBVIOUSLY...and he REALLY REALLY likes it lol duuh, so him waiting for 5 months just for me is reasurance in itself that he loves me.....he even said that he wants to get married, and have guys and stuff, but he said we should wait a few more years lol!!...I should hope so!! >_<.....but I am SURE that I am ready for him, and I WILL use protection, and be VERY careful, I do not want a baby because I KNOW I would not be able to handle it....in the old days things would be diff,...wouldnt be a big deal, but now we are forced to fight hormones and nature lol!!:P, so I figure if I give in to the fight, the LEAST I could do is use protection .....sooo yeah I want to have sex with him, but honestly... I would like an outside opinion, is 17 still too young? |
Eh, I'll probably get some thumbs down for saying that but if you're ready and you know how to use protection properly, and you're in a serious relationship...I'd say go ahead.
Just be very careful. Condoms can break and other forms of birth control won't work if they aren't used properly. |
My bf is a virgin and loves hardcore sex? ok well idk how to explain this but ill try my best, my bf is a virgin he's into rough sex like me the problem is im very experienced and he is not but he wants to have anal with me and choking one another.
HE's a year younger then me. im 17 and i'v only been with one other guy but hes 2 yearsago in the pass and me and my bf have been dating for a year!
Him and I are ready to have sex but im scared that ill hurt him, im not saying im fat cause im not but im scared ill hurt his little friend and i hope this helps im 5'5 1/2 and hes 6'3?
what should i do ? how should i treat him when we do? and what happeneds is he cums early how can i get him to get it up again? |
| You should hold off on this until he get a little more experience. It's not something that you should rush into. You also don't want him to hurt you. |
Culturally speaking: Why does every girl from Disney always turn into a sexed-up hoochie? This is true because every girl on Disney starts of sweet and innocent and then turns into some crazy sex obsessed hoochie. This has happened to Miley Cyrus, Selena Gomez, Demi Lovato, Vanessa Hudgens, Ashley Tisdale, Alyson Michalka because if you look at how they dress and their song lyrics they scream hardcore sex! This is exactly what Disney does to young girls. Why? |
They want to change their image from little goodie goodie to sexy woman. They think they need to shock people. The transition from guy star to adult actress has never been easy for anyone in Hollywood and few tend to do well.
They think by showing people their stuff it will get them noticed. Which it does. Negative attention is better than none at all. |
Girlicious - Your opinions on Robin Anten and Ron Fair? I think these are 2 hardcore sex addict exploiting the 4 young women, what do you think? Robin Anten looks like a real pervert to me. |
I completely agree with you.
The groups she creates are all about sex appeal. She constantly would complain in the show that the girls were performing/dancing to provocatively, and that they needed more class. However that "class" fails to come out when they dance.
I have seen them live and their performance solely consists of them dancing while looking like slu**
I dont think that Robin and Ron should be proud of what they created but more ashamed of the things they depict through their work |
Is it better to be in a Monogamous relationship or an Open relationship (with Multiple Sex Partners)? I'm kinda young, and I'm not sure what I'd really want. I'd prefer the traditional monogamous one, but I don't think anyone else wants that anymore though. Maybe hardcore religious people, but I'm a nonbeliever.
And I guess an Open relationship'd be more fun, but I don't know if I'd feel comfortable...
What do you suggest is better? |
There are plenty of non-religious people who still hold traditional values of marriage.
If that's what you want that's what you should hold out for... you'll find it, Sweetie!!! |
Why does age matter so much when ppl are young but not when theyre older? well im 19 and i like this girl ..shes 15. were both hardcore christians so sex is..not gonna happen..
but some ppl say its still wrong for me to go for her
WHY |
| The difference is in the level of maturity and experience. It is huge between a 19 year old and a 15 year old and not so huge between a 29 year old and a 25 year old. But it sounds like you still need to mature some to understand that. Sorry. |
Is this normal for a young girl? My best friend that is a girl had sex yesterday with an 18 year old guy. She si 15 years old and she said it was good but he was rough. She said it was more then hardcore sex. Awkward! Anyways she says her legs gave out on her. She would ask this herself but she ran out of questions for the day. She wants to know if it's normal for a girls legs to give out on them during sex and for them to not have gotten much feelings since. Mind you it was yesterday and she is still having to hold on to stuff to walk or she falls. She said her legs were shaking like crazy before they gave out on her. What should she do? Is this normal after hardcore sex? |
| It happens to my boyfriend and i im 15, hes 17. sooo im guessing its normal lol :) |